Thursday, August 13, 2009

Some decisions are for the best with Alzheimer's

When it comes to Alzheimer's, some of the hardest decisions we must make tax our soul with a price almost too great to bear.

Sometimes those decisions are made for us when we least expect … and they're the right answer.

The physical and emotional toll of tending to the everyday needs of a loved one with Alzheimer's or any catastrophic illness or injury is costing our nation and our individual families dearly. Caregivers are exhausted and fragile because they're truly on call 24/7 …

What is she doing when I'm not watching her all the time? Is tonight the night he may decide to wander out of the house? Can I leave her alone 15 minutes while I get a shower? How can I get him to eat and drink properly? What if … what if … what if …

Many families justify with good reason their decision to keep a loved one with Alzheimer's at home, certain that the familiar surroundings are the best location for them and enable the caregiver(s) to do their job taking care of their own.

Those 24/7 days and weeks continue to multiply as time goes on. Caregivers are more prone to illness and injury, and what will a family do when that day comes, when the primary caregiver is incapacitated for a day, a week, a month or even longer?

Think about that very carefully …

More tomorrow.

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